All I can say is wow! Just wow!
Now I do not like to watch television, so I spend a lot of my time analysing stuff.
I have not read a paper in 20 years; I have watched the news little in 20 years, maybe once or twice a year and this has lead me to type this.
Every body evaluates everybody, a woman walks into the room, the men’s first thoughts are and always will be savage, and something like wow she is pretty! There will be few men in that room who think, wow she dresses well, look how she holds herself; she knows how to make a presence, or other attractive qualities not related to looks in the primary instance of viewing. One man may have initial attraction to eyes and if that person walks into the room with those qualities, he is initially hooked.
Never compromise on who you are. Never compromise on anybody’s values or beliefs where it matters to them most!
Discuss these rules integrity honesty openness. Staying true to your word, same common goals same outlook in life
Create dealbreakers
You do not think out of the box, you need to think outside the box..
Let me give you a for instance.
Let us say you are missing that spark from your partner but everything else is there you align on everything but you are just not feeling it! You just do not want to rip their close off jump into bed.
Therefore, there is a lack of intimacy
you’re a tight cohesive couple, you laugh and joke a lot, you know the real best friend scenario, but you have no intimate feelings, you constantly look at each other, you are respectful and understanding to their feelings and needs and you wholeheartedly desire to be kind to your partner,
Lets break this down
Tight and cohesive
Cohesion refers to the degree of relatedness or consistency of the responsibilities or functionalities of a single component of a system, such as a class, method, or module. High cohesion means that the component does only one thing well and has a clear purpose and scope.17 Mar 2023
Simply put, the more your ideals align with symmetry the greater the bond between the two people.
Therefore, if your partner has high cohesion in one element and you have high cohesion in another then there is a need to understand how these two joining of elements to expand the couples whole being as one. If you both align on the same element gives you the ability to increase empathy between not only the two people but also its portrayal as a common goal to the outside world.
I have discussed random somewhere in my posts and its unknown effect on beings, circumstances, happenings and declarations, but we can actually determine the probabilities of alignment to a particular element.
Total global population/alignments factors = percentage of people matching your values
Ahh ok. When you align on an element, the sub elements play an important factor
Morality
Now you could put this as a master factor not a sub factor as if I am using but then you would struggle to comprehend its complexity. As a sub category, it has sub sub categories so part of morality could be Principles, and again a sub category of this Principles could be ethics. You could go on and on breaking this down into yes or no elements or simply add the yes or no to the top categories..
This can be broken down into two master categories of Deal breakers And Non Deal breakers
We then have to add related life sub categories to both sides
Business. Commercial, relationship, love, marriage, people, friends, or any word, which you consider to be the underlying reasoning behind you belief in what is a deal breaker and what, is not.
however even in frame worked understanding of the sectors and sub sectors, every personal underlying belief in what you expect, desire anon anon is based and always will be based on your belief and not understanding along with your flexibility relating to any sub category in the section morality’s sub sectors of Deal breakers or Non Deal breakers. It is hard to explain but only you know your own understanding or belief in what is acceptable and what is not. If girl or guy code is broken. Therefore, you go forward in life with a understanding or belief that that girl code or guy code has elements in it where you are flexible and somebody else may be rigid. Therefore, your acceptance and understanding of that particular code differs slightly from one person to another. You are more accepting of deviations to that code than another is. It therefore does not become a life rule but an acceptance of the rule with grey edges.
For that is what life is, a set of codes you have learned to understand to this exact moment in your life. Things may happen to you in the future that may make you look at those parts of your persona in more detail but at this exact moment in time, it is who you are or aspire to be.
Part of that girl or boy code may argue that you should never steal from your friends, but you then read a comment that a young 9 year old girl was caught stealing from a her sisters purse she was hungry.
There will be the rigid believers that nope this is theft no matter what her circumstance has and therefore have no empathy, to the people who say omg how is this possible in today’s age how can a young girl go hungry who have trickles to buckets of empathy! Here again we can break this further down and create sub categories —–empathy – theft-reason-understanding-why. The simple question is why she was hungry! Empathetic people will come up with scenarios, reasoning as to why this happened, and the strict follower of the rule who has little empathy! Will still define this as theft. But there is more parts for one part may be that the strict believer and follower of the rule had exactly the same thing happen to her family and depending on that persons understanding of that event will either show total empathy or complete distain.
Therefore, there has to be a way of defining these ends or we could go analysing one word and a happening related to that word down to infinity!
You can clearly see we have to have some form of acceptable system that calculates the need for depth.
I have to come back to my m8 random here, as we cannot go on forever trying to analyse one part of one sub element or category. We have to set a limit. The fact is that you can only mentally calculate one level wide down to 27 levels deep and for each element we add we can add 3 elements 3 levels deep, wide, up down and in and out making 3 dimensions and from these come sub categories or linked ideals.
However, it will still never become a fundamental truth or proposition, which serves as the foundation for a system of belief or behaviour or for a chain of reasoning.
It is that chain of reasoning that defines who you are.
TBC
These are my thoughts random. Yes, unstructured? Probably to you but not to me!
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